How To Choose a First Dance Song For Your Wedding
Planning your big day and stuck on what to choose for your first dance? Don’t stress, you can’t go wrong with a classic that gets everyone smiling.
Sure, some couples already have that song-the one that was playing when they first met, had their first date, or said I love you for the first time. But if you haven’t got one, don’t stress! Sometimes, all you need is a belter of a tune that sets the right mood. And after your wedding, it’ll always be your song.
There are plenty of great first dance songs out there, so just think about what suits you as a couple. Do you want a slow and romantic moment, or something upbeat to kick off the party? If you can’t decide, why not go for a song that starts off mellow and builds up to a fun, lively finish?
Also, if you’re booking a wedding band, have a think about how your chosen tune will sound live. Some songs-especially those packed with electronic effects-can be hard for a live band to pull off exactly as they sound on record. If you’ve got your heart set on one of those, talk to your band about how they might adapt it, or consider playing the original track through their sound system.
And don’t forget song length! A full five-minute ballad might sound lovely, but a shorter version can keep things fresh and avoid any awkward shuffling. Most bands are happy to tweak things for you, so just ask!
Consider how your first dance will transition into the rest of the evening. Choosing a song that segues naturally into an upbeat number can keep energy flowing and get your guests out on the dancefloor. This progression can be planned to create a better atmosphere at your reception.
If you want to make your first dance very special, then consider choreographing a routine. Be it just a gentle sway or an out-and-out dance number, some practice in advance will help you feel more confident and enjoy the whole experience even more. Some couples go so far as taking dancing classes well in advance to perfect their moves and add flair to their performance.
Lastly, consider the size of your dancefloor and where it will go. A big, central dancefloor will get more of your guests on their feet after your first dance. Make sure you have enough room to move around and that the floor is clear of obstructive items
To give you some first dance ideas, here are a few of the most requested first dance songs from real couples so far this year, according to wedding music booking agency Function
Central:
- At Last – Etta James
- Can’t Help Falling in Love – Elvis Presley
- Lover – Taylor Swift
- Let’s Stay Together – Al Green
- Baby I’m Yours – Arctic Monkeys
- Stand By Me – Ben E King
- This Will Be (An Everlasting Love) – Natalie Cole
- Your Song – Elton John All Of Me – John Legend I Won’t Give Up – Jason Mraz
